A Poem for the Broken and Lonely

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When I see that look
In a stranger’s eyes
The look that says
They don’t feel worthy
Life is scary
Lonely and hard
And they have no one
Who really cares

I try to catch their eye
And give them a smile
A word of encouragement
To simply acknowledge
Their existence
And let them know
They matter
They are important
And I care.

“Hello! How are you?
My name is Linda
What’s your name?
God bless you, I hope you
Have a good day!”

Why do I do this
With random strangers
On the street
In a store
Sitting alone
In the back of the church
Why?

Because I was that one
With hopeless eyes
Lost and lonely
Feeling unworthy
I was the Nobody
That no one was ever
Happy to see
Yes, that was me.

But here and there
I met a few people
Who saw me
As a fellow human being
Worthy of notice
Worthy of kindness
Worthy of love
And they showed me
They really did care.

Sometimes
All it takes is a smile
A hello
A simple “How are you?”
To turn someone’s life
Completely around.

Linda Lee @LadyQuixote
10 November 2019

25 thoughts on “A Poem for the Broken and Lonely

  1. Renee/Heart Tokens November 10, 2019 / 9:14 pm

    Linda there needs to be more people like you! You are a good soul! It means the world to know that someone cares. The world can be brutal. Keep doing what you are doing! You are making a big difference in your little part of the world! πŸ™‚πŸ’œ

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    • Linda Lee/@LadyQuixote November 10, 2019 / 9:22 pm

      Thank you so much, sweet Renee. But I owe any goodness that is in me to the Lord, and to the few very kind people who showed me love and compassion when I was utterly broken.

      In my worst, most broken condition, I did some very selfish, sinful things, in my desperate and misguided attempts to find love.

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      • Renee/Heart Tokens November 10, 2019 / 10:53 pm

        You are welcome Linda. And we owe everything we are to Him! He loves us and understands us in those broken times and conditions. He is the ultimate LOVE that we have always looked for!

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  2. @PreacherBiker November 10, 2019 / 10:09 pm

    Great job sharing on FB TWITTER

    Sent from my T-Mobile 4G LTE Device

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  3. simplywendi November 10, 2019 / 10:23 pm

    Amen! God bless you for reaching out to others and letting them know they are seen. I have also been that person and just like you, I work hard at reaching out.
    Important words and message in your words.

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  4. Paul Martin November 11, 2019 / 6:40 am

    There are many who feel lost and hopeless for a whole number of reasons. It is OUR job as believers to have discernment enough, and to be willing enough to bring hope! And worse yet are those who sit hurting, hopeless, and broken in our churches! People will make “nice nice” but don’t really want to get involved! Everyone just assumes that the broken person is “alright” because ,”they ARE in church, after all!” But the battles of hurting people often go unnoticed….Again, this is sad…and we will give an account! I too have been the hurting one! And I pray that I will never be the one who passes those who are hurting without offering genuine concern or without offering hope!

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    • Linda Lee/@LadyQuixote November 11, 2019 / 7:20 am

      Thank you for what you said, Paul. Yes, it’s very true. I have been that lost, broken, lonely woman sitting in a church, hurting and needing just one person to reach out, and nobody did. Probably because, as you said, they figured I must be okay, since I was in church.

      My husband and I moved to this town last year, and we are new to the church we’re going to now. I am just getting to know the people there. So I don’t know who is a regular and who is new. But yesterday, as the service was ending, I turned around and saw a young woman with that hollow, hurting look in her eyes. I walked over and said hello, introduced myself and asked how she was doing. The story that poured out of her was heartbreaking. Whew.

      Her name is Rose. Please say a prayer for our sister Rose. She was the inspiration for my poem.

      Sometimes, though, the needs around us are too overwhelming. In 2014, I stayed ten days in Beverly Hills, California, with my daughter, who was there for surgery at Mount Sinai hospital. I was there to help my daughter after the surgery. She’d had dangerous blood clots in her legs after a previous surgery, so I was very focused on her well-being during those ten days.

      I was shocked to see that in rich Beverly Hills, there were homeless people everywhere. In front of Mount Sinai hospital. On Rodeo Drive. And camped out all over Venice Beach, the one day we visited there.

      There was no way that just one person could reach out to every one of those lost, hurting people. And my daughter needed me. We needed to do a lot of walking, to reduce the risk of blood clots. So, we walked. While I silently prayed for all the hurting souls, and tried to meet as many eyes as I could with a friendly smile.

      It helped me then to remember that Jesus had to withdraw from the needy crowds into the wilderness and rest, at times. Living in a human body, we can only do so much.

      Thanks again, Paul.

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  5. ourlittleredhouseblog November 14, 2019 / 9:38 am

    You are such a kind soul Linda, thank you for that. This time of year there are lots of hurt and lonely people out there and a smile plus a greeting is one of the best gifts anyone can get and give. We need more kind souls out in the world like you.

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  6. Wordscroll November 17, 2019 / 11:01 am

    Hi Linda, I came to thank you for the follow and am excited to see your blog ministry to those struggling with trauma; it is such a vital work you are doing! My son did a tour in the Marines, with two missions in Afghanistan and every day I am so thankful that he is not suffering from PSTD. I bless your mission and will include you, your husband and your ministry and those you serve in my prayers. Thank you again for the follow, it is encouraging to me!
    Blessings, Lori

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    • Linda Lee/@LadyQuixote November 17, 2019 / 5:32 pm

      Thank you so much for these encouraging words, Lori. I don’t remember exactly how I came across your blog, but after reading just one or two posts, I had to follow.

      My heart goes out to you and your son. Yes, how fortunate that he doesn’t have PTSD. Having loving, validating emotional support from family and friends makes all the difference. The combat veterans and trauma survivors who don’t have the support of caring loved ones are much more likely to develop PTSD. This is what I have observed and also what I’ve experienced. There is no greater healing power than the power of love.

      I am currently writing a memoir. This is a story I first tried to write when I was in my early twenties, more than forty years ago. But I wasn’t close to being ready to write my story, then. Now, thanks to a lot of love and healing, I believe the time is finally here. It still isn’t easy, but Lord willing, I can do this!

      Thank you again for your kind words. I was just working on a part of my story that is particularly hard, so I needed some extra encouragement right now. God bless. 😊

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      • Wordscroll November 19, 2019 / 8:27 am

        Hi Linda, so glad to read your nice letter today! I think it is no accident that you stumbled on my blog! The Lord leads us to others on our path with like-hearts to find just that, encouragement, friendship and empowerment to do what He calls us to do. I am so glad to hear you are writing your memoirs. The Lord asked me to write a book 5 years ago and I have finally accomplished that, it is about to print any day now. Maybe you read about it on my blog. I am most excited for the next two that I am working on now. They are twins and are being written for prisoners and anyone locked in a prison in their mind and emotions. When I the messages the tears flow–His Love is so great for the hurting, broken and lost.
        Please keep in touch! I will speak to my publisher about your book. She is a wonderful woman of God and has been such an encouragement to me. The Lord led me to her from a bus in Jerusalem! He is so wonderful and so faithful to His kids!!
        Keep making steps, just one in front of the other and you will be amazed at how it all falls into place.
        Standing with you!
        Lori

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        • Linda Lee/@LadyQuixote November 20, 2019 / 9:53 pm

          I’m looking forward to reading your book. It’s really amazing how the Lord leads our steps and works all things together for good, when we put Him first and seek His will above all.

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